Products tagged with 'co-dependence'

Creativity Over Co-Dependence is a 12-week series on Thursdays from 6:00 to 8:30 pm MDT beginning May 7, 2020. This course breaks down false assumptions and beliefs, and allows us to redirect our coping mechanisms so they do not get in the way of Life, Light, and Love. This is an experiential class, having two partner practices and a creative visualization process, for applying this work to our lives. Instead of limiting an experience to keep from losing it, let us open ourselves up to our self-validated complete experience. It opens up the door to greater power, passion, and joy. With Larry Byram, Sandy Jaquith, and Tom Faggiano.

This discussion examines a few of the major costs and circumstances of interacting in co-dependence and provides a method for questioning our prevailing patterns so we can build new tools to break out of co-dependent patterns. We want partners who reflect, share, and even suggest new ways to creatively connect. This playful creative interaction is always possible when we consciously connect. This is a free intro to our 12-week series Co-Creativity Over Co-Dependence. With Larry Byram and Sandy Jaquith.

This discussion examines a few of the major costs and circumstances of interacting in co-dependence and provides a method for questioning our prevailing patterns so we can build new tools to break out of co-dependent patterns. We want partners who reflect, share, and even suggest new ways to creatively connect. This playful creative interaction is always possible when we consciously connect. This is a free intro to our 12-week series Co-Creativity Over Co-Dependence. With Larry Byram and Sandy Jaquith.

Offsetting Social Pressure is a 4-hour recorded event and is the 1st Part of a 3-Part Series exploring ways to strengthen our energy fields and to use CNG (Common Neutral Ground) to authentically connect and deepen our relationships. The overall problem about co-dependence is that we never see our part in creating the situation with its polarities. We feel justified in acting out our pain, anger and resentment not realizing how much our behavior and motivations are based on a childhood belief. The choice seems to be between our partner’s disagreeable option and our own defensive protection reaction. Co-dependent individuals always make this trade off by reacting, falsely believing that they have to compromise themselves to have a relationship. Common Neutral Ground is a technique for creating autonomous connections where partners and friends cannot manipulate us. The more we know and accept ourselves as contributors in the world, the less we need to prove it. This is why, in conscious relationships, individuals create a transpersonal space for each relationship. Simultaneously, we affirm our personal space so we can always be connected to our life, light and love. We first need to acknowledge the fullness of our creative being to be able to see others in their gifts. Classes may be purchased as a series or individually and includes a live Webinar, Pdfs of the class slides, and video and audio recordings. With Larry Byram and Sandy Jaquith.

Making Our Experience Whole – Transition to an Online Community is a 6-hour recorded event and is Part 2 of a 3-Part Series. It is an experiential playshop designed to explore our modalities and co-dependence, and to develop of our Autonomy. Repression of sensations, feelings, emotions and thoughts creates defensive distortions and establishes our level of defensive reactiveness to others. This is why it is critical to clear out any repression, not only because we do not want our partner to use these weaknesses to hurt us, but because open (un-repressed) expression increases our mutual capacity to creatively contribute. The truth of one partner may be disturbing in a co-dependent relationship. Conscious individuals connect creatively and always embrace their partner’s truth, or at least consider it. Even a co-dependent partner (with their reactions) coupled with a more conscious partner will learn not to personalize their experiences. When we communicate with someone based on internal imbalances, we end up seeking their affirmation, acknowledgement and acceptance because of the problems we are personally experiencing. We want and expect them to fix us, or at least be supportive. This creates co-dependent chaos, where our need for our partner’s attention becomes increasingly frustrated by their need for our attention. When we share this experience in the common relationship space our partners have a choice about how much they invest in helping to clarify our circumstances or whether there are other opportunities for growth that are larger. Classes may be purchased as a series or individually and includes Pdfs of the class slides, and video and audio recordings. With Larry Byram and Sandy Jaquith.